The Divorce

This weekend we finally clued in the children to what we had decided on months ago. We're getting a divorce. This probably doesn't come as much of a surprise to most of the people who read this, and for those that we didn't tell personally, sorry, it's tough to spread the word on something like this without the kids finding out and we wanted to make sure they heard it from us first.

We picked up Christine at the airport and took the kids out for a picnic at the park. We told them we were getting a divorce. Laine started crying immediately, Eve saw that and started crying too. James just kept grinning, he's a little bit little to understand what's going on. We explained to the children that we would both always love them, and that it wasn't their fault, and that everything would turn out ok in the end. Eve cheered up after about a minute, then went off to climb the monkey cage. James scampered after her, still grinning. Laine asked a few questions and cried some more, we held her and answered the best we could. After a few minutes, Laine seemed to decide things were going to be ok, and her tears dried up and she went off to play with Eve and James.

I'm sure there will be more tears in the days ahead, but they seem to be taking it very well so far.

Anyway, the legal gears are churning, everything is agreed on, paperwork is done; we don't know when we'll be official, probably sometime in September. Thank you to everyone who has been so supportive to both of us and to the children.